Her Story: Ellen Hayes

Can you take us back to the beginning? What are your earliest memories, and how do you think they’ve shaped who you are today?


Some of my earliest memories were watching my mom play piano and wanting to play like her. I was 3 years old and starting to fiddle with the keys. The sound she played would still be in my mind after she finished playing it. I tapped on keys until I found the sound she made one finger at a time, until I taught myself to play it. Here today and so many years later I’m still playing a piano. Who knew; besides God I would be a musician and choir director today? I can assure you; I did not know.

As you reflect on your life, are there any key moments or turning points that stand out to you? What made them significant?


Becoming the choir director for our church’s junior choir was truly a pivotal moment. It held immense significance because I had been grappling with various challenges and seeking clarity. I prayed fervently for guidance, letting God know that I was ready and willing to take on any assigned task. When I was appointed as the choir director, it felt like a breakthrough moment. It was as if a heavy burden had been lifted, and I was elated to have been entrusted with meaningful work. Since then, I have been wholeheartedly dedicated to my role.

Who were the most influential people in your life, and how have they impacted your journey and development?

My musical influences are diverse and impactful. Firstly, my parents (RIP) for their enduring wisdom and guidance, which I still draw upon today. My oldest brother, who sparked my passion for the organ and set me on my singing career path. My beloved husband and family, my most devoted fans. My current pastor, who continues to provide me with spiritually sound advice. Sande Rose, who made the pivotal phone call informing me that the GMWA Detroit Chapter sought to professionally record one of my songs. A. Jeffrey LaValley, an influential friend I met through GMWA and Sande Rose, who has produced several of my songs and offers unwavering support whenever I need it. My producer, Carlos Gunn, who champions my creative vision. Sean Hardin and Michael Mindingall, my dear friends and collaborators on my first songs. Caleb Foster, who gave me my first gospel radio show on WDRJ AM station and continues to host my events alongside Sean. My sister, who serves as my editor and ensures that the jumble of songs in my head doesn’t translate into a jumble on paper. My children, who are the first to hear the songs I write. The Word of Truth Choirs, who consistently provide me with the platform to introduce my choir songs to an audience. Humilitee, who, in recent years, has played a significant role in creating exceptional content to help establish my digital footprint and build my brand. She has become an indispensable mentor and friend in my musical career. I often say, « If you want things done, get JoJo around the corner. But if you want things done right, call Humilitee. »

What challenges have you faced along the way, and how did you overcome them?


Singing has always been a passion of mine. I spent nearly 20 years singing in our family group, marking the start of my singing career. However, my love for songwriting blossomed later on, bringing me newfound joy. When my father fell ill and our family rallied to support him, the family group disbanded. Despite this, the desire to sing and write songs never left me. Songs would appear in my dreams and thoughts, day or night, persisting in my mind until I taught them to my children and shared them with choirs. This act gave purpose to my songs, allowing them to transcend the pages they were written on and the confines of my mind. I am grateful that God kept music alive in my life during these challenging times.

If you were to pick a theme or a lesson that runs through your life story, what would it be?


Treat everyone right. You will never know who you may need tomorrow.

Are there specific accomplishments or milestones that you’re particularly proud of, and why do they hold such significance for you?


My very first solo project, « Step Into Your Blessing, » holds a special place in my heart. It was a meaningful milestone for me, as were the first song I wrote that was recorded by another choir (« Bringing it Back Home » by GMWA Detroit Chapter, « O King »), and the moment I heard my song on the radio for the first time, thanks to Randi Myles of The Detroit Praise Network. These moments, along with my first music nomination, my first music award, and my first professional music review in The Journal of Gospel Music, may seem small to some, but they are incredibly significant to me. I cherish each and every one of these accomplishments. It’s truly encouraging, especially as an independent artist, to receive the gift of creative songs from God and to have those songs recognized by the gospel music industry.

Looking ahead, what are your hopes and aspirations for the next chapter of your life story? What legacy do you want to leave behind?


In the future, I’d like to collaborate with more artists and explore different genres, with the hope of achieving accolades such as a Grammy or Dove Award. One of my dreams is to have choirs from all over the world sing my songs. I have always wanted to share a song with « BabyFace, » should he ever delve into the inspirational genre. Ultimately, I aim to leave behind a lasting legacy of great gospel music that will resonate through generations, from my children and grandchildren to the generations beyond.